Monday, November 30, 2009

Everything is Gonna B Alright...



Everything is Gonna B Alright - Just keep faith and hope alive.

I am with you darling.

રડી લેવું છે...

પર્વત પર ચડીને
શિખરોને ધક્કા મારી મારીને
ગબડાવી દેવાં છે,

દરિયાને ખાલી કરીને રણમાં
વહાવી દેવા છે,

હવાના મહેલોને
મુઠ્ઠીએ મુઠ્ઠીએ
તોડી નાખવા છે,

રાત-દિવસના પડછાયાઓને
પૃથ્વીના પેટાળમાં
દાબી દેવા છે.

અને પછી....

જાન તારાઁ ખોળામાં
મોઢું સંતાડી
છાતીફાટ રડી લેવું છે.


કે મેઁ તારી કેટલી રાહ જોઈ,
હજી પણ મારો પ્રેમ છ્લકાય છે...

મને મંજૂર નથી.

કોઈની બુદ્ધિના પાંજરામાં લાગણીનું પંખી થઈ,
ટહુક્યા કરવાનું મને મંજૂર નથી;
કોઈ પ્રેમને નામે મને ડંખ્યા કરે,
અને ઈચ્છા મુજબ મને ઝંખ્યા કરે;
જે બોલે તે બોલવાનું ને નાગ જેમ ડોલવાનું.
મને આવું અઢેલવાનું મંજૂર નથી.


પોતાની આંખ હોય પોતાની પાંખ હોય,
પોતાનું આભ હોય પોતાનું ગીત હોય,
મનની માલિક હું મારે તે બીક શી?
હું તો મૌલિક છું,
હા માં હા કહીને ઠીક ઠીક રહીને,
મને ઠીક ઠીક રહેવાનું મંજૂર નથી.


માપસર બોલવાનું માપસર ચાલવાનું,
માપસર પહેરવાનું માપસર પોઢવાનું,
માપસર ઓઢવાનું,
માપસર હળવાનું માપસર ભળવાનું,
આવું હળવાનું ભળવાનું માપસર ઓગળવાનું
મને આવું પીગળવાનું મંજૂર નથી.


કોઈની બુદ્ધિના પાંજરામાં લાગણીનું પંખી થઈ,
ટહુક્યા કરવાનું મને મંજૂર નથી.



કેમ મારું મન અધીરું થાય છે કારણ વગર ?

કેમ મારું મન અધીરું થાય છે કારણ વગર ?

લાગે છે, તું યાદમાં અટવાય છે કારણ વગર.


તું હૃદયમાં એમ ફરકી જાય છે કારણ વગર,

જેમ નભમાં વીજળી ચમકાય છે કારણ વગર.


એમ તો, શોધ્યો મળે નહીં ક્યાંય તું આયાસથી,

ને કદી કણકણમાં તું દેખાય છે કારણ વગર.


કેટલી કોશિશ કરું- તું યાદ નહીં આવે મને !

…પણ છતાંયે ધ્યાન લાગી જાય છે કારણ વગર.


મેં તને પૂર્યો કવનનાં શબ્દમાં મોઘમ, સખા !

તોયે આવી ટેરવે ટકરાય છે કારણ વગર.




Sunday, November 29, 2009

How to grow up a Child.. ??

How to grow up a Child to make him Absolutely Charming, Beautiful , Soft-spoken, Sweet, Cute, Funny, Truthful & Extremely Intelligent?????

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Meley Mummy papa se pucho!!!!!

www.forangelsonly.org

World Famous Mothers

What they may have said in those days?

 

MONA LISA'S MOTHER: "After all that money your father and I spent on braces, that's the biggest smile you can give us?"

 

PAUL REVERE'S MOTHER: "I don't care where you think you have to go, young man, midnight is past your curfew."

 

COLUMBUS' MOTHER: "I don't care what you've discovered, you still could have written home!"

 

MICHELANGELO'S MOTHER: "Can't you paint on walls like other children? Do you have any idea how hard it is to get that stuff off the ceiling?"

 

NAPOLEON'S MOTHER: "All right, if you aren't hiding your report card inside your jacket, take your hand out of there and show me."

 

ABRAHAM LINCOLN'S MOTHER: "Again with the stovepipe hat?  Can't you just wear a baseball cap like the other kids?"

 

MARY'S MOTHER: "I'm not upset that your lamb followed you to school, but I would like to know how he got a better grade than you."

 

ALBERT EINSTEIN'S MOTHER: "But it's your senior picture. Can't you do something about your hair? Styling gel, mousse, something . . .?"

 

GEORGE WASHINGTON'S MOTHER: "The next time I catch you throwing money across the Potomac, you can kiss your allowance good-bye!"

 

JONAH'S MOTHER: "That's a nice story. Now tell me where you've really been for the last forty years."

 

THOMAS EDISON'S MOTHER: "Of course I'm proud that you invented the electric light bulb. Now turn it off and get to bed!"


ME: I will kill you, Shut up and go to bed, pappa is waiting for me.



Is wish you the best in your life..!!



My One and Only Love!!



जब कभी...





Questions

जब कभी मैं खो जाउँ तो, मुझे ढुँढ लोगे ना ?
जब कभी मैं तन्हा रहुँ, मेरा साथ दोंगे ना ?
जब कभी मेरे बेहके कदम, तुम थाम लोगे ना ?

जब कभी मैं खो जाउँ तो, मुझे ढुँढ लोगे ना ?
जब कबी मैं तन्हा रहुँ, मेरा साथ दोँगे ना ?
जब कभी मेरे मुश्कील हो दगर, तुम सँग चलोगे ना ?
जब कबी मेरे बेहके कदम, तुम थाम लोगे ना ?

जब कभी दे आवाज दील, तुम सुन लोगे ना ?
जब कभी तुटे ख्वाब तो, तुम बुन लोगे ना ?
जब कभी मुझसे हो खता, तुम बक्श दोगे ना ?
जब कभी मेरी नम हो नजर, मुझे प्यार दोँगे ना ?

जब कभी हम ना आये सनम, तुम आओगे ना ?
जब कभी मेरे आँसु बहे, उन्हे पोछ लोँगे ना ?
जब कभी उम्र ढल जायेगी, मुझे यु ही चाहोगे ना ?
लो कसम कुछभी हो सनम, तुम दुर जाओगे ना ?


Answers

तुम ही मेरी जान हो,
तुम ही अरमान हो,
तुम ही धड्कनो मैं हो सनम,
दील का ये ईरादा हैं,
तुमसे मेरा वादा हैं,
जीना मरना तेरे सँग हैं सनम.......

प्यार प्यार और प्यार...

Thursday, November 26, 2009

5 Nice little stories

First

Once, all villagers decided to pray for rain, on the day of prayer all the
people gathered but only one boy came with an umbrella... 
THAT'S FAITH

Second

When you throw a baby in the air, she laughs because she knows you will
catch her...
THAT'S TRUST

Third
                                                                    
Every night we go to bed, without any assurance of being alive the next
morning but still we set the alarms in our watch to wake up...             
THAT'S HOPE                                                               
                                                                           
Forth

We plan big things for tomorrow in spite of zero knowledge of the future   
or having any certainty of uncertainties...
THAT'S CONFIDENCE

Fifth

We see the world suffering. We know there is every possibility of same or
similar things happening to us. But still we get married??...
THAT'S OVER CONFIDENCE!!

WISHING YOU A HAPPY LIFE!!!

Nice Heart Wallpapers

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 







Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Top 10 Most Romantic Songs of All Time

10. You’re Beautiful, James Blunt






9. My Heart Will Go on, Celine Dion





8. All I Want Is You, U2




7. Wonderful Tonight, Eric Clapton




6. Amazed, Lonestar




5. Lover Lay Down, The Dave Matthews Band




4. Total Eclipse of the Heart, Bonnie Tyler




3. At Last, Etta James




2. True Companion, Marc Cohn




1. I Will Always Love You, Whitney Houston




Friday, November 20, 2009

Real Meanings Of Words.



Stranger
Sorrow
Solitude
Respect
Patience
Pain
Music
Love
Innocence
Friendship
Divine
Departure
Compassion
Best Friend

Beauty of Nature



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50 common interview questions...!!

50 COMMON INTERVIEW QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS

Very Important Please Dont Miss it.

Review these typical interview questions and think about how you would answer them. Read the questions listed; you will also find some strategy suggestions with it.

1. Tell me about yourself?

Ans : The most often asked question in interviews. You need to have a short statement prepared in your mind. Be careful that it does not sound rehearsed. Limit it to work-related items unless instructed otherwise. Talk about things you have done and jobs you have held that relate to the position you are interviewing for. Start with the item farthest back and work up to the present.

2. Why did you leave your last job?

Ans: Stay positive regardless of the circumstances. Never refer to a majorproblem with management and never speak ill of supervisors, co-workers or the organization. If you do, you will be the one looking bad. Keep smiling and talk about leaving for a positive reason such as an opportunity, a chance to do something special or other forward-looking reasons.

3. What experience do you have in this field?

Ans: Speak about specifics that relate to the position you are applying for. If you do not have specific experience, get as close as you can.

4. Do you consider yourself successful?

Ans:You should always answer yes and briefly explain why. A good explanation is that you have set goals, and you have met some and are on track to achieve the others.

5. What do co-workers say about you?

Ans: Be prepared with a quote or two from co-workers. Either a specific statement or a paraphrase will work. Jill Clark, a co-worker at Smith Company, always said I was the hardest workers she had ever known. It is as powerful as Jill having said it at the interview herself.

6. What do you know about this organization?

This question is one reason to do some research on the organization before the interview. Find out where they have been and where they are going. What are the current issues and who are the major players?

7. What have you done to improve your knowledge in the last year?

Try to include improvement activities that relate to the job. A wide variety of activities can be mentioned as positive self-improvement. Have some good ones handy to mention.

8. Are you applying for other jobs?

Be honest but do not spend a lot of time in this area. Keep the focuson this job and what you can do for this organization. Anything else is a distraction.

9. Why do you want to work for this organization?

This may take some thought and certainly, should be based on the research you have done on the organization. Sincerity is extremely important here and will easily be sensed. Relate it to your long-term career goals.

10. Do you know anyone who works for us?

Be aware of the policy on relatives working for the organization. This can affect your answer even though they asked about friends not relatives. Be careful to mention a friend only if they are well thought of.

11. What is your Expected Salary?

A loaded question. A nasty little game that you will probably lose if you answer first. So, do not answer it. Instead, say something like, That’s a tough question. Can you tell me the range for this position? In most cases, the interviewer, taken off guard, will tell you. If not, say that it can depend on the details of the job. Then give a wide range.

12. Are you a team player?

You are, of course, a team player. Be sure to have examples ready. Specifics that show you often perform for the good of the team rather than for yourself are good evidence of your team attitude. Do not brag, just say it in a matter-of-fact tone. This is a key point.

13. How long would you expect to work for us if hired?

Specifics here are not good. Something like this should work: I’d like it to be a long time. Or As long as we both feel I’m doing a good job.

14. Have you ever had to fire anyone?

How did you feel about that? This is serious. Do not make light of it or in any way seem like you like to fire people. At the same time, you will do it when it is the right thing to do. When it comes to the organization versus the individual who has created a harmful situation, you will protect the organization. Remember firing is not the same as layoff or reduction in force.

15. What is your philosophy towards work?

The interviewer is not looking for a long or flowery dissertation here. Do you have strong feelings that the job gets done? Yes. That’s the type of answer that works best here. Short and positive, showing a benefit to the organization.

16. If you had enough money to retire right now, would you?

Answer yes if you would. But since you need to work, this is the type of work you prefer. Do not say yes if you do not mean it.

17. Have you ever been asked to leave a position?

If you have not, say no. If you have, be honest, brief and avoid saying negative things about the people or organization involved.

18. Explain how you would be an asset to this organization ?

You should be anxious for this question. It gives you a chance to highlight your best points as they relate to the position being discussed. Give a little advance thought to this relationship.

19. Why should we hire you?

Point out how your assets meet what the organization needs. Do not mention any other candidates to make a comparison.

20. Tell me about a suggestion you have made ?

Have a good one ready. Be sure and use a suggestion that was accepted and was then considered successful. One related to the type of work applied for is a real plus.

21. What irritates you about co-workers?

This is a trap question. Think real hard but fail to come up with anything that irritates you. A short statement that you seem to get along with folks is great.

22. What is your greatest strength?

Numerous answers are good, just stay positive. A few good examples: Your ability to prioritize, Your problem-solving skills, Your ability to work under pressure, Your ability to focus on projects, Your professional expertise, Your leadership skills, Your positive attitude

23. Tell me about your dream job ?

Stay away from a specific job. You cannot win. If you say the job you are contending for is it, you strain credibility. If you say another job is it, you plant the suspicion that you will be dissatisfied with this position if hired. The best is to stay genetic and say something like: A job where I love the work, like the people, can contribute andcan’t wait to get to work.

24. Why do you think you would do well at this job?

Give several reasons and include skills, experience and interest.

25. What are you looking for in a job?

See answer # 23

26. What kind of person would you refuse to work with?

Do not be trivial. It would take disloyalty to the organization, violence or lawbreaking to get you to object. Minor objections will label you as a whiner.

27. What is more important to you: the money or the work?

Money is always important, but the work is the most important. There is no better answer.

28. What would your previous supervisor say your strongest point is?

There are numerous good possibilities:Loyalty, Energy, Positive attitude, Leadership, Team player, Expertise,Initiative, Patience, Hard work, Creativity, Problem solver

29. Tell me about a problem you had with a supervisor?

Biggest trap of all. This is a test to see if you will speak ill of your boss. If you fall for it and tell about a problem with a former boss, you may well below the interview right there. Stay positive and develop a poor memory about any trouble with a supervisor.

30. What has disappointed you about a job?

Don’t get trivial or negative. Safe areas are few but can include: Not enough of a challenge. You were laid off in a reduction Company did not win a contract, which would have given you more responsibility.

31. Tell me about your ability to work under pressure.

You may say that you thrive under certain types of pressure. Give an example that relates to the type of position applied for.

32. Do your skills match this job or another job more closely?

Probably this one. Do not give fuel to the suspicion that you may want another job more than this one.

33. What motivates you to do your best on the job?

This is a personal trait that only you can say, but good examples are: Challenge, Achievement, Recognition

34. Are you willing to work overtime? Nights? Weekends?

This is up to you. Be totally honest.

35. How would you know you were successful on this job?

Several ways are good measures: You set high standards for yourself and meet them. Your outcomes are a success. Your boss tell you that you are successful

36. Would you be willing to relocate if required?

You should be clear on this with your family prior to the interview if you think there is a chance it may come up. Do not say yes just to get the job if the real answer is no. This can create a lot of problems later on in your career. Be honest at this point and save yourself future grief.

37. Are you willing to put the interests of the organization ahead of your own?

This is a straight loyalty and dedication question. Do not worry about the deep ethical and philosophical implications. Just say yes.

38. Describe your management style ?

Try to avoid labels. Some of the more common labels, like progressive, salesman or consensus, can have several meanings or descriptions depending on which management expert you listen to. The situational style is safe, because it says you will manage according to the situation, instead of one size fits all.

39. What have you learned from mistakes on the job?

Here you have to come up with something or you strain credibility. Make it small, well intentioned mistake with a positive lesson learned. An example would be working too far ahead of colleagues on a project and thus throwing coordination off.

40. Do you have any blind spots?

Trick question. If you know about blind spots, they are no longer blind spots. Do not reveal any personal areas of concern here. Let them do their own discovery on your bad points. Do not hand it to them.

41. If you were hiring a person for this job, what would you look for?

Be careful to mention traits that are needed and that you have.

42. Do you think you are overqualified for this position?

Regardless of your qualifications, state that you are very well qualified for the position.

43. How do you propose to compensate for your lack of experience?

First, if you have experience that the interviewer does not know about, bring that up: Then, point out (if true) that you are a hard working quick learner.

44. What qualities do you look for in a boss?

Be generic and positive. Safe qualities are knowledgeable, a sense of humor, fair, loyal to subordinates and holder of high standards. All bosses think they have these traits.

45. Tell me about a time when you helped resolve a dispute ?

between others. Pick a specific incident. Concentrate on your problem solving technique and not the dispute you settled.

46. What position do you prefer on a team working on a project?

Be honest. If you are comfortable in different roles, point that out.

47. Describe your work ethic ?

Emphasize benefits to the organization. Things like, determination to get the job done and work hard but enjoy your work are good.

48. What has been your biggest professional disappointment?

Be sure that you refer to something that was beyond your control. Show acceptance and no negative feelings.

49. Tell me about the most fun you have had on the job.

Talk about having fun by accomplishing something for the organization.

50. Do you have any questions for me?

Always have some questions prepared. Questions prepared where you will be an asset to the organization are good. How soon will I be able to be productive? and What type of projects will I be able to assist on? are examples.

And Finally Best of Luck Hope you will be succussful in the interview you are going to face in coming days.

“Never take some one for granted,Hold every person Close to your Heart because you might wake up one day and realise that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones.” Remember this always in life.



Thursday, November 19, 2009

Show me the meaning...!!!

My favorite song...




Secrets for a Flat Stomach

Developing a lean, flat stomach takes time and patience, especially when it comes to thoselast few kilograms in those hard to lose places. There is only one way to lose fat in the so-called 'stubborn areas,' and that is with the correct combination strength training (with a extra focus on mid-section), cardiovascular exercise (short, hard workouts), and stable blood sugar (keeps you from adding additional fat and makes it easier for the body to use body fat for fuel).

Spot Reduction is a Myth - The first thing you need to realize is that it is impossible to 'spot reduce' fat from one specific part of the body. Fat loss occurs systemically, meaning that you can't control where the fat comes from. When you burn fat for energy, you will draw it from all areas of the body, and the first place you tend to put it on will be the last place it comes off.

Cardio, cardio, cardio - Doing all the abs exercises in the world will do nothing if you have a layer of fat covering it. Doing strength training, or lifting weights, would help, but not as much as aerobic exercise. If you want to add some ab exercises in after the cardio, that's great, but be sure to work your whole torso, not just the upper abs — that includes the lower abs, lower back and the muscles that wrap around your sides.

For example, Walking, jogging, bicycling, elliptical exercise and stair climbing are all great fat burners. Most give up early in the workout. During the first 10 minutes of aerobic activity, glycogen (stored carbohydrates) is the primary fuel source. Because you don't burn significant amounts of fat until glycogen stores are depleted, the key to maximum fat loss is to work out aerobically for 30-60 minutes continuously per session.

Diet – Its best to stay away from fried food and too many sugary desserts. Abdominal fat loss is a 50% exercise, 50% nutrition combination. Regardless of how much you workout, if the number of calories you take in is greater than the amount you burn, you'll still put on abdominal fat.


Eat Small Meals Regularly - You should try and spread your calories out into five small meals a day instead of 2 or 3 big ones so that you don't overeat in one feeding.

Give it Time – If you want to have a flat stomach in 3 weeks, forget it. Losing fat takes time, and it's unhealthy to lose too much weight too fast. Gradual weight loss is healthier, and more likely to be sustained over time. Go for a lifestyle change, something you can live with for the rest of your life, or you will just yo-yo. It's a marathon, not a sprint.

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